Mumwedzi mina yapfuura muTokyo, ndaienda kuhotera iyoyo anenge mazuva ose, ndichigara kubva mangwanani kusvika usiku, asi ndisingarari.Zvandave kugadzira documentary nezvehotera yacho, muridzi andipa imba yekurara kuti ndinyatsoona mamiriro ehotera yerudo chaiyo kwemwedzi mishoma iri kutevera.Mukati memazuva mashoma, ndakabva ndajaira kazevezeve kepanguva kacho, kuchema-chema. nemubhedha uchisheedzera, uye dzimwe nguva zvaisashamisa kuona mukadzi achifamba nemurume akasungirirwa imbwa.
Wakambofungira kusungwa kana kusunga umwe wako mubedroom?BDSM - iyo inosanganisira husungwa, chirango, kutonga uye kuzviisa pasi, uye sadomasochism - yakakura mukuzivikanwa kwemakore.Nzira yakakurumbira yehusungwa ishibari, inozivikanwawo seJapan tambo bondage.
Shibhari chiito chemweya.
Pasinei nekutenda kwakakurumbira, zari haisi tsika yemweya muJapan.Iyi ndiyo nyaya kune avo vanonakidzwa nedzimwe nzira dzekink, dzakadai sehusungwa hweganda, kurohwa, mitambo yekutambudza, kutonga uye kuzviisa pasi, nezvimwewo.Tambo yeJapan inogona kunge iri mitambo yepabonde isina hunhu, kunyarara munyika ine mhirizhonga, kana zvese zviri pakati.”
Shibhari inofanira kunge yakaoma uye yakaoma.
Kunyange zvingave zvakaoma, hazvifaniri kunge zvakadaro.Iwe haufanirwe kudzidza uye kugona mafomu akaomarara angave asina kana hutano kwauri kana muviri wemumwe wako.Zvimwe zvisungo zvekutanga, kana corset iri nyore, inonakidza.Pakupera kwezuva, ndezvekunakidzwa nekunakidzwa, kwete kutyisidzira kana mafaro.
Shibhari ndezvekufara.
Pamusoro, shibari ingaita seyakangotarisa kunakidzwa kwepabonde, asi handizvo zvaigara zvakadaro.Sekureva kwemudzidzisi wezvepabonde ane chitupa Denis Graveris, vanhu vakasiyana vane zvikonzero zvakasiyana zvekupinda muhusungwa uhwu.Anotaura kuti vanhu vanowanzosangana nekuziva kwemuviri panguva uye shure kweshibari, asi kwete chiitiko chese chinoda kusanganisira kukurudzira zvepabonde.Nekudaro, nekuda kwekuvimba mune chiitiko, iwe ucharamba uchiwana chimwe chinhu chepedyo uye kunzwa uri pedyo nemumwe munhu.
Shibari vane mhirizhonga.
Marwadzo anogona kunge ari chinhu cheshibari, asi haifanire kunzwa sekutambudzwa, uye haifanire kunge isingafadzi, akadaro Graveris.Izvi ndezvekunakidzwa kwako, kwete kutambura kwako.Kuvimba chimwe chinhu chakakosha pakutamba "shibari" pakati pako nemumwe wako.
Zvakanakira chai bari
1. Zvinokurudzira kushamwaridzana.
Chakavanzika chehusungwa uye kunakidzwa kwehusungwa izvo vanhu vazhinji vasingataure nezvazvo ndezvekuti zvinoda kushamwaridzana kwepedyo uye nguva dzose kuchinjana kwekunzwa.
2. Nyore kuchinjika, kuchinjika kusingagumi.
Sezvinoita zvinhu zvakawanda muhupenyu, hapana nzira imwechete-inokodzera-yese nzira yeShibari.Inochinjika zvisingaite, uye unogona kuigadzirisa nekuishandura kuti ienderane nemhando dzese dzemuviri, mazinga ekusimba, uye mazinga echiitiko.Iwe haufanire kuchinjika kuti unakirwe neshibari, iwe unongoda kuve wakajeka pamusoro pezvinoshanda nezvisingaite.
3. Inogona kukupa hutano hwakanaka hwema endorphins.
Sekureva kwaGrevelis, kana ukafunga kugamuchira chiitiko ichi, muviri wako unokupa mubairo nemahomoni ekunzwa-akanaka senge endorphins, serotonin, uye dopamine.Paunenge uchinge wagona aya matekiniki, unogona kusundira muviri wako kusvika kumagumo kusvika yakupa mabhenefiti aya.
Kuongorora shibari inzira yakanaka yekuunza iwe nemumwe wako pedyo.Iyo zvakare nzira yakanaka yekuziva muviri wako zvirinani, izvo zvinozopedzisira zvakusiya iwe uchinzwa simba.Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti uite tsvagiridzo yako usati wazviita.
Zvakare, usaedze kutevedzera zvinopfurwa neakanakira pasina kutora matanho ekuchengetedza akakodzera.Ehezve: gara chengetedza mutambo wako wakachengeteka uye uchizvidira zvachose.
Nguva yekutumira: Aug-04-2023
